君子不责人所不及,不强人所不能,不苦人所不好.
君子不责怪别人做不到的地方,不要强求别人做力所不及的事情,不让别人为他所不喜欢的事物而苦恼.）
A noble man will not blame others for what is beyond their power,force others to do something impossible or make others do anything they dislike.
其身正,不令而行,其身不正,虽令不行
自己作风正派不发命令政教也能顺利实行：自己的作风不正,即使三申五令,别人也不听从.）
If you can set a good example,others will follow the suit even if you give no orders.If you cannot,others will do nothing of the kind even if you give orders.