英语翻译
many couples choose not to have children,and some cannot have children themselves.Infertile(不生育的) couples may be trying to have children,but without success.Some will try medical treatment,which may be painful,embarrassing,or expensive—or even all three!But whatever the case,chidless couples agree that the reason they don't have children is a private matter,and not for public discussion.Infertile couples are especially adamant(强硬的)about this:nothing is more painful than being asked,"why don't you have kids?Are you lazy or something?" Or,"Why don't you adopt?"Adoptive parents feel embarrassed when someone asks,"why did you adopt?Were you too busy to have your own kids?"Questions about someone's parenthood are nosey(好管闲事的),and just not anyone's business.If a couple needs you to know why they don't have children,they will tell you!If not,follow this policy:if you don't know,then you don't need to know,so don't ask!your silence on the matter will be greatly appreciated,especially by those who are struggling with the heartbreak of not being able to conceive or bear children.Like any other pain,you cannot understand what the feeling is until you experience it yourself.There are many things in life that should remain private.The decision to have children is one of them.