待人处事不是给人压力、给人逼迫,就能成功,就能获胜,疾言厉色或者使用暴力,是无法令人心服口服的,反而是要给人温暖、安详、以尊重、爱语,让人心生欢喜、心悦诚服,才是胜利者.
It isn't right that you can win a game by clamping down or using violence,it can not make people sincerely convinced.You should provide warmth and sedateness so that people will be sincerely convinced.