Hello,Linda!I am sorry that you are not getting along well with your family for the family rules.I can understand you .But on the other hand i think it is good to follow the family rules because it is good for you .Your parents make strict rules for you in order to make you superior to others.You can exchanges ideas with your parents and let them know you are devoted to them and you are willing to live up to their expectation.In that case your parents will think of the rules and maybe will make a change .In short I hope you can deal with it by yourself .
Yours
Lintao