已经是今天第三次路过此题了.还没有一个像样的译文,那么小女子上了：
XXX is suspiciously similar to you as you'd like to be.He may be popular,or he may not,but no matter what he's impossible to ignore; he stands out...just the way you always wanted to.He may have sometimes thought that he was special,or destined for greater things,but probably dismissed the idea as a fantasy.He's come in for his share of hurt,but gotten off with minor damage.And you've been sparing with the free handouts:whatever he gains,he's worked for.
XXX 很像是你想成为的人.他可能很受欢迎,也可能不受欢迎,但是不论是否受欢迎,他都无疑是一个引人注目的人物.他很出众.就像你想成为的那样.或许他也觉得自己很不一般,或许注定要干一番惊天动地的成就,但是可能他很快就会把这种念头当成幻想而打消.他很可能是以分担伤痛的方式走进你的生活,但他离开的时候也会造成轻微的伤害.你已经注定要和这个免费的“公众人物”共度时光了：无论他拥有什么,无论他追求什么.
In general,you care deeply about XXX,but you're smart enough to let him stand on his own,without burdening him with your personal fantasies or propping him up with idealization and over-dramatization.XXX is a healthy character with a promising career ahead of him.
总而言之,你很在乎XXX,但你也会有足够的睿智来给他自己的独立空间,既不会以你自己一厢情愿的期望给他增加负担,也不会一味的鼓动他追求那些过于理想化和戏剧化的东西.XXX是一个很好很阳光的人,而且他前方的事业前途是很光明的.