would you do me the (help ) of dining with me?
kindness 仁慈,善意 （名词）语句以不符
good 好的,优良的（形容词）语法上不可能成立
good 产品 （名词） 句意不通
help 帮助（名词,形容词）最贴近句意
但如果是would you do me the honor (kindness ) of dining with me?就有不一样 would you do me the honor (kindness ) of dining with me?我可以荣幸的和你吃饭么?
这一句中有honor 就要用kindess,表示客气