第一种用法是
Not only + 分句,but also + 分句 句型,其中前一分句要部分倒装.如:
Not only does John love Chinese,he is also good at speaking it.
你这个句子属于第二种用法
即not only...but also...连接主语,不倒装.如:
Not only the mother but also the children are sick.
所以我觉得从句子结构本身分析not only I but also you love me这个句子是正确的,至于更多的我就不清楚了
顺便提一下谓语动词要遵循“就近一致原则”,Not only the students but also the teacher was invited.不仅学生们被邀请,而且那位教师也被邀请了.主语是 the teacher 所以后面的动词是was