Every day, various proposals on how happiness is like the flood. The proposal is simply no feeling that we should be something for fun ---- the right to choose or create a positive self-concept. Our founding father of the pursuit of happiness even written "Declaration of Independence."
Correspondingly, the concept is to be "happy and long in the state." If we have never been happier, then our life must be a problem.
However, most people have not had the happy experience. Instead, a more common, as essayist Michel huddle off to the mixed feelings: "No problem, the success of vague and fleeting inner peace."
Misunderstanding because the boss, you might say that they very happy yesterday. But really not a happy moment it? No moment of inner peace Why? Now think about it, has received a letter from my old friends? Is there a stranger in your hair pretty much appreciated, to find out where you do? Do you remember that it is not pleasant day, but those moments are flashes.
Happy as visitors, such as from a foreign land, amiable Dili Aunt, the total inter-wing in your most unexpected visit, drink a wine tour, and then disappeared without a trace, leaving behind only the lingering fragrant gardenia. You can not be called upon to make only one present in its fleeting, play experience. Happiness can not be forced, but once come, you have to be sure I understand.
When you are full of thoughts, go home on foot, try to see the sunset light at the window, reflected the general fire burning city. Listen twilight gradually make the kids playing basketball in the cry, you will feel emotions ran high, but only because you are distracted.
Happiness is a kind of attitude, not a state. This attitude is that you listen to the aria when cleaning blinds, or pick up when the wardrobe is still interested. Happiness is sitting around the family dinner table. Happiness in the present, not in some distant promise: "When we have time ." As long as we love are going through life, will have more luck, will experience more happiness.
Happiness is a choice. Happy like a balloon, in the bright blue sky toward the sea, journeyman, when the joy comes, you will stretch out a hand to keep it in mind ...