如果通俗一点儿地说……
The highest realization of love:To love someone but not to own her(his).That is an action of selfishness.
简单一点儿地说……
The top state of love:To love someone but no to own her(his).That's a selfish action.
最标准的说法……
The attitute of love which is in the highest wisdom:To love someone but not to occupy her(his) as that's an action of the selfishess.
(呵呵……是这样的吧……)