Hi Mike
Welcome to China, Hearing about your recent situation. It seems that everything is not so good,maybe because you know little Chinese and Chinese culture.
If you have free time, I suggest that you could try to learn some Chinese, and communicate with others actively. You will find that Chinese people are very passionate to foreigners. What's more, you also could learn some Chinese culture.
Sincerely hope you will love China and hope you could make more Chinese friends.
Looking forward to hearing from you again.
Yours Sincerely
Mike