用To me 是可以的哦
因为：
FOR ME 为我（目的状语）
1.He did that for me.
2.What he had done for me made me very happy.
他为我做的事使我非常高兴.（有目的做出的好事）
TO ME 对我（状语,而更有方向的意味）
1.He said to me:Let's go.
2.What he had done to me made me very upset.
这里不是表示目的地,是表示对我来说,而不是对别人来说
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